It’s a June Friday night as I sit down with many others in the country to watch Andy Murray in his Wimbledon Semi-Final against Rafael Nadal, the first set went to Murray who was playing like a force capable of beating Nadal to reach the final of a grand slam for the first time. The start of the 2nd set went Murray’s way, serving brilliantly and making Nadal work hard. However, the tide turned in the fourth game of the set as Murray squandered a chance to bring up two break points by missing a routine forehand.
‘It’s only one missed shot in a match’ you may think, yet the effect on Murray was devastating, his body language went from assertive and confident to frustrated and unsure which lead to his physical game starting to disintegrate. He had not suddenly lost his physical talent or fitness therefore what had happened in his head?
It’s as if Murray, in the midst of a mid-match crisis, lost sight of his path to victory and the positive messages that create a belief of how to win. What resulted was a player that appeared to have lost control of his mental game, he became distracted by bad line calls and seemed to have the memory of the missed shot linger for a long time as he hesitantly went for similar shots, thus allowing Nadal to take full advantage.
Having an ability to stay in the present moment and understand what thoughts and attitudes cause us to slip out of it, can determine how we perform when under pressure. We all have a voice inside our head that talks to us, at times it is on our side and at other times it works against us. This voice impacts on what we do and how well we do it, what’s important is that we DO have control over the voice. If Andy Murray had become aware of his self-talk after the crucial missed shot, he may have been able to put it behind him and play on as he had been. Once you are aware of your self-talk you are then able to deal with it and change a poor performance into a good one.
